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What Happens When You Stop Doing What Everyone Else Wants (Replay)

July 23, 2025 • Jazzmyn Proctor • Season 3 • Episode 26

0:00 | 15:25

in this first-ever “life lessons from the real housewives” episode, i’m diving into the current season of beverly hills and why kyle richards is fully in her reputation era—reclaiming her voice, her choices, and her boundaries.

this isn’t just about reality tv drama. it’s about the deep inner work that happens when you stop doing what everyone else wants and finally start asking yourself, “what do i want?”

i talk about how much i relate to kyle’s yes-girl era (hi, same), the resentment that builds when we abandon ourselves to maintain relationships, and how i’m learning to trust my voice—especially when it disappoints other people.

this episode is a love letter to the strong friends, the people-pleasers, the golden children, and anyone who’s learning to choose themselves in real time.

press play if you’re ready to find your voice again.

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